Dec 18, - The essential part of being a hermaphrodite is that one is all that a male or female is and so much more. I could not We use (he & she) for male and female, what can we use for hermaphrodite? Are hermaphrodites real?Do hermaphrodites have both parts? Sep 16, - Intersex, or DSD (Disorders of Sex Development), is more complicated "God made me the way I am, and I accept myself,” she told South Africa's You magazine. As a medical condition, DSD has no real bearing on sexual.